Why is that? Why do we end one year and begin the next with a specific result in mind and in a very short time back to our old habit?
Whether it is to lose weight, quit smoking, be more loving increase revenues, or exercise more, does not take much for us to give up.
Of course, try a different formulation. Instead of losing weight, we say, "I will reach my ideal weight" Instead of leaving, we say: "I will be smoke-free.". Rather than ...
Then we tried to achieve our results by the newspaper about it. Or we say affirmations. Or see what they want. Or ... you fill in the blanks.
The fact is that until we are completely committed to a result try nothing works. The reason? We try instead of just doing.
Anyway you claim you want in the coming year, which will happen in a simple way; do things differently than they have in the past.
If you want to lose weight, what happens when you change what you put in your mouth. What you put in your mouth will change so that you get at the supermarket or order at the restaurant.
If it comes to quitting smoking is a matter of not buying a pack of cigarettes. Or not to accept the offer of a cigarette from someone who sees a source of stress and think they are actually doing you a favor by offering a cigarette.
Anyway you say you want or do not want to do so in the next year, takes place one day at a time, 1:00 to 1:00 and often a moment at a time.
Not both. It is done in small steps. Simple as that.
What you want, need and are willing to work for, you must be committed to it and back to eliminate all other possibilities.
No other annotations for not achieving what you want. If weight loss is your goal, you can not point the finger at someone else offered him a piece of cake and just be polite you answered yes.
If you want to build your business that will take more than just wanting to. You must be willing to do things differently than the 99% of people who say they are committed to building your business.
This may mean staying out of social networks for most of the day to focus on revenue generating activities. This may mean spending an hour a day studying a new technology that will take you to the next level. You may need to turn off the phone and do not get caught up in the drama of another person.
This could mean attending a networking event in your local community to meet other objectives oriented entrepreneurs despite prefers sleeping in an hour or two. Perhaps this means attending industry specific conferences.
Anyway you say you want to achieve in the next year, it's really up to you if you do not.
Maybe you are finally ready to write that book you mentioned for the past five years. The only way that will happen is that you agree to work on the manuscript of everyday ... anything.
Success does not happen with large steps we take, but with the small things we do every day.
Start today to take a small action toward the outcome you say you want. So when we look back on 2014 is, without doubt, he did all he could to change your life once and for all
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